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In Memoriam

Here we remember Old Sennockians and staff and share the obituaries published in Sennockian magazine.

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In Memoriam 2024-2025

Matthew Best FRNCM (Caxton 75)
Richard Davidson (Fenton 77)
St John Derbyshire (Johnsons 52)
Roger Emett (Johnsons 64)
Bill Gray (former staff)
Peter Hirschmann FDSRCS FRCR (School House 55)
Dr Ian Lawrence (former staff)
David Manger (Hardinge 56)
Peter Martin (Grote 50)
Anita McEwen (former staff)
Elizabeth Moore (former staff)
Ann Murray (former staff)
Michael Parslew (former staff)
John Reeves (Johnsons 51)
Jim Scouse (former staff)
Christopher Starling (Hardinge 58)

In Memoriam 2023-2024

Jeremy Bacon (Johnsons 47)
Nicholas Bacon (Johnsons 50)
Peter Blackwood (Sackville 56)
Roger Bonafont (School House 44)
Robin Briars (School House 51)
David Bridge (Wordsworth 52)
Jonathan Broadhurst (Johnsons 08)
John Cannon MBE (School House 48)
William Durham (Wordsworth 46)
George Gatling (School House 47)
Martyn Gregory (Grote 74)
Quentin Harker (Wordsworth 60)
Nigel Henson (Fryth 69)
Stewart Holden (School House 53)
Michael Holmes (Hardinge 56)
Samuel Johns (2008)
Richard Kempton (Wordsworth 66)
Ron Knight (Johnsons 47)
Marie Lello (staff)
Hugh Llewellyn-Jones (Hardinge 56)
John Lowing (Grote 57)
Ann Murray (former staff)
Philip Nevin (Wordsworth 69)
Terry Newbury (former staff)
Paul Noble (Sackville 91)
Sandra O’Brien (nee Thompson) (GIH 79)
Revd Ian Ogilvie MBE (former staff)
William Pollock-Gore (School House 45)
Alexander Polyviou (2001)
Arnold Rogers (Fenton 49)
Duncan Townson (former staff)
Christopher Warring (Fenton 64)
Edgar Watts (Grote 42)
Mike Williams (former staff)
The Rt Revd Dr Alan Wilson (Fenton 73)

Sennockian 2023-2024

In Memoriam 2022-2023

John Brown (Grote 44)
Nicholas Bundy (Hardinge 73)
Surya Burathoki (staff)
Dr Katharine Draper (former Governor)
Jonty Driver (former staff)
Timothy Gould (Hardinge 63)
Revd John Robin Keeley (Hardinge 57)
Richard Kempton (Wordsworth 66)
Peter Lloyd (former staff)
Anthony Lunch (Sackville 63)
Professor Tom McLeish FInstP, FRSC, FRS (Fenton 80)
Anthony Miles (Fenton 63)
David Newby (Fenton 59)
Neil Payton (Grote and Tammadge 92)
Simon Prodger (Johnsons 78)
Richard Reid RIBA (Johnsons 57)
Sarah Rendall (nee Sackville-West) (Taylor 78)
Jess Search (Fenton 87)
Roy Stafford (School House 45)
Trevor Thomas (Park Grange 63)
Robert Wilkinson OBE (former Governor and Foundation Trustee)
Christopher Wood (Johnsons 50)

Sennockian 2022-2023

In Memoriam
2021-2022

William Boulton (School House 46)
Robert Bowyer (Hardinge 65)
Dr David Brancher (Fenton 46)
Graham Brill (School House 50)
Peter Brotherton (Wordsworth 67)
Walter Cheney (Hardinge 58)
Steven Cole (Caxton 70)
Revd Anthony Ford (Grote 58)
Peter Goddard (Fenton 45)
Patrick Green (School House 53)
Andrew Gunderson (Groves 75)
David Hands (OS 05)
Paul Harrison (former staff)
Anthony Howcroft (Hardinge 58 and former staff)
Roy Kekwick (Johnsons 45)
Paul Kempton (Wordsworth 70)
Ian Longhurst (Johnsons 57)
Victoria Lumb (Park Grange 94)
Ian Mateer (Fryth 66)
Chief Oladipupo (Ladi) Rotimi-Williams (IC 66)
Dr Debasis Roychoudhury (IC 68)
Jonathan Scotland (Johnsons 89)
Peter Sharp (Johnsons 57)
Richard Sibbald (School House 66)
Brenda Trenowden (Trustee)
Jonathan Van Stroud (formerly Stroud) (Fenton 74)
David Watson (Wordsworth 53)
Robert White (Fryth 71)

Sennockian 2021-2022

Ian Lawrence
1933-2024

Former staff

Ian Bernard Lawrence, who died at the age of 90 in July 2024, was of the generation who went up to university after  completing national service. He arrived at Sevenoaks in 1958 straight from Queens’ College, Cambridge, with more  experience of life than the typical university leaver.

Born in Raynes Park in 1933, Ian stayed in London during the Second World War, and recalled the sight of Spitfires and other planes overhead as he celebrated his seventh birthday on Battle of Britain Day, 15 September 1940. He went to Raynes Park County Grammar School, attending the Trinity College of Music Junior Department on Saturdays.

After two years’ national service with the RAF at the Worth Matravers radio station, his place at Cambridge was delayed by another year (and the demands of the Latin entrance paper), time gainfully spent working at the Merton and Morden Central Library. He finally arrived at Queens’ in 1955, where he took Part I in Music and Part II in Geography. He threw himself into
college and university music, becoming vice-president of the college’s music society. He conducted the college choir, and in giving a solo to one Margaret Jones from Homerton College, he met his future wife.

On graduating, Ian joined the staff of Sevenoaks School, teaching Music, English and Geography from 1958 to 1962. Music clearly flourished at Sevenoaks in this period, and the Headmaster, Kim Taylor, remembered Ian working particularly well with the Head of Music, Brian Townend: ‘For Brian, “real” music ended with Purcell and then started again in the 20th century…between whiles, you had show-off, virtuoso stuff. He wouldn’t touch it. He cheerfully helped choose Ian Lawrence, who would.’

Peter Young, in his A History of Music at Sevenoaks School, writes: ‘This happy collaboration between Townend and Lawrence is reflected in the choice of programme items for the next few Summer Concerts, with the following titles: ‘Opus Dei’ (1959), ‘Breakaway’ (1960) and ‘Five for a Shilling’ (1961).’

After four years at Sevenoaks, Ian then made the move from secondary to tertiary education, taking a position at Maria Grey College near Twickenham (which later became the West London Institute of Higher Education), starting as a lecturer and rising to be the Head of Education. He worked there for 21 years until taking early retirement in 1987.

In the meantime, he gained his PhD from Leeds University in 1975, and his thesis was published as a book: Composers and the Nature of Music Education.  This is just one of Ian’s many entries in the British Library Catalogue, which range from music to education to local history. Interest in the last was sparked by the move from London to Fontmell Magna, the ancestral village he had discovered during his national service in Dorset, where he chaired the Parish Council and founded the village archive society.

A second retirement brought him back to Cambridge, attracted by the university library, the musical life of the city, and a growing number of grandchildren. In 2008 Ian and Margaret celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary in Queens’ College, and he continued to enjoy visiting Queens’, especially for annual garden parties, attending his last one shortly before his 90th birthday in 2023.

He is survived by his wife Margaret and by their three sons, Stewart, Andrew and Christopher, and five grandchildren.

Christopher Lawrence (son)

Michael Parslew
1936-2024

Former staff

Michael Parslew was born in Birmingham on 27 September 1936, the youngest of two children. He grew up in Stirchley and attended King Edward’s School. In 1955 Michael went to Selwyn College, Cambridge to read English. There he was introduced to Patricia Holland at a friend’s 21st birthday party. Within two weeks they were engaged, and they married two years later, enjoying 60 happy years together.

After Cambridge, Michael’s chosen path was teaching English. His first position was at Bridlington School, then Taunton School where he became involved in Drama, and in 1966 he returned to King Edward’s School as an English master, later extending his influence to Drama. Michael joined Bristol Cathedral School in 1973 where he taught English and Drama, and he subsequently became Head of Drama at Farnborough Sixth Form College, a role he enjoyed for five years and where he introduced Dance to the curriculum.

In 1980 Michael moved to Sevenoaks School as Head of Drama and the inaugural Director of the Sackville Theatre, which was being constructed. At the opening in November 1981, in the company of Sir Ralph Richardson and Sir Harold Hobson, the newly formed Sevenoaks School Theatre Company (SSTC), under Michael’s direction, performed two pieces.

In the five years that followed, at the school and in his accompanying role as Artistic Director/Co-Director of the Sevenoaks Summer Festival, Michael set a benchmark for creativity and professionalism. His love of Shakespeare and Chekhov influenced his choice of productions, although highlights of the festival also included Clownmaker in 1981 and Terra Nova with its innovative staging in 1983. The former, about Vaslav Nijinsky and Sergei Diaghilev, reflected Michael’s continuing interest in dance which featured strongly in performances at the Sackville Theatre.

Michael was renowned for his ability to communicate with and inspire young people. Many Old Sennockians remember not only his creativity and passion, but also how he instilled confidence and self-belief in them, as well as influencing their next steps. His final production in July 1986 was The Ancient Mariner, performed by SSTC members past and present under the name Omega Theatre.

In 1986, Michael’s love of books and literature led him and Pat to Bodmin, Cornwall, to run a bookshop. Having made this a success, they moved to the Hungerford Bookshop which they ran until they retired to East Anglia.

In 2007, Michael was invited back to King Edward’s School as editor of the relaunched Old Edwardians Gazette until 2012. He and Pat moved to Worcestershire and enjoyed exploring the surrounding countryside. Pat died in 2020 and Michael, after a short period of declining health, passed away peacefully at home on 30 October 2024. He is survived by his two daughters and four grandchildren.

Jane Dobinson and Rachel Parslew

Elizabeth Moore
1941-2024

Former staff

Liz Moore joined Sevenoaks School as a cello teacher in 1971. She had been a cellist in the National Youth Orchestra before being awarded the Sterndale Bennett Scholarship to study at the Royal Academy of Music. Those who were around in January of 1971 will remember the bitterly cold temperatures and New Year snowfalls that made for a demanding start to the year. This would never have deterred Liz, whose time at Sevenoaks was characterised by resilience and determination.

Liz was a devoted teacher, always challenging her students to greater achievements and consistent standards. For those students hooked in by the high bar she set, fast learning ensued. Liz was a perfectionist and when at her best, the cello playing at Sevenoaks School was absolutely outstanding; there were many occasions where this excellence was evident. One piece she coached many times, and to notable success on two occasions in the National Chamber Music Competition for Schools (the forerunner of Pro Corda), was Heitor Villa-Lobos’s Bachianas Brasileiras No 5 for solo soprano and eight cellos. The piece was also performed in the Pamoja Hall for the inaugural concert at The Space on 27 April 2010.

Liz was continuo cellist for the Thomas Tallis Society for 10 years and performed regularly with the local Cantate Choir. She played on radio programmes, including Classic FM’s Masterclass in 1994 with the Amicitia String Quartet and for the BBC In Praise of God series in 1998 with The Chantry Choir.

Liz retired from Sevenoaks in 2014 and was a wonderful team player, devoted to her craft and an absolutely terrific ambassador for music at Sevenoaks School.

Christopher Dyer

Jim Scouse
1946-2022

Former staff

Jim joined the Sevenoaks School staff as an English teacher in 1983 after replying to an advert ‘on the off chance’ following his return from a six-month trip around the world.

Before his travels, he had taught English at Hampton School between 1973 and 1980, where he was known for his excellent drama productions, his involvement in trips and the CCF. Entries in the school magazine suggest he was an educator who enjoyed a challenge. He subsequently taught at Newcastle-under-Lyme Grammar School.

At Sevenoaks, Jim was a very welcome addition to the staff, a well-respected and inspirational member of the English department and a regular director of plays in the Sackville Theatre. An adventurous soul, Jim led a memorable Sixth Form trip to Kenya accompanied by Roger Woodward and Philippa Milward. After a week in a charity-run children’s village near the Ugandan border, the group went north on a long safari in a very old British Army lorry which had no starter motor or lights! Sometimes scary, the trip involved hippos, crocodiles, lions, breakdowns, marauding local men and camping in the bush listening to distant drums at midnight.

Jim was appointed IC Tutor in 1988 and struck up a good partnership with Housemaster Peter Winter and his wife Adwoa. He subsequently became a supportive Assistant Housemaster to Steve Connors who joined the IC in 1993. Jim was an amusing, intelligent man with wide cultural interests and enjoyed long, interesting discussions late into the night. He was also a quiet maverick, instinctively averse to authority, and liked to steer his own path on a number of issues. There was something undeniably cool about him and he garnered respect. Amongst many IC boys he was extremely popular and elevated to legend status, doubtless in part because of his non-conformist streak.

Jim was a private man and gave little away but enjoyed the company of his dog and driving his VW campervan to the West Country on weekends off to stay in his house in Crewkerne.

Jim always remained slightly mysterious and didn’t like to stop too long in any one place. In 1997, he took a teaching job in Cairo, later moving to a house in Luxor where he could watch the feluccas on the Nile. Jim enjoyed the life he created for himself in his beloved Egypt and it was there that he died of brain cancer in 2022.

Jim was a good man and a congenial colleague. May he rest in peace.

Peter Winter, Steve Connors and Roger Woodward

Bill Gray
1948-2024

Former staff

‘Rock solid, utterly reliable, someone you’d want on your side.’ Bill Gray was all of that and so much more: cricketer, footballer, Physics teacher, tutor. Not one to blow his own trumpet, his quiet, powerful personality made him a linchpin of the Common Room, a fine teacher and a trusted and respected friend of colleagues and pupils.

Bill joined Sevenoaks in 1971 from Oxford, after a year in Uganda. In the classroom he was thorough and clear, equally at home with Oxbridge teaching as with Junior Combined Science. Old Sennockians will remember well his catchphrases which, as so often with well-liked teachers, were mimicked good naturedly. The same calm steadiness made him an excellent pastoral tutor and then Divisional Head of the Middle School. That steadiness was most needed and appreciated when he took over Johnsons for a term at short notice when help was required. I too owe him much for the help he gave us in running the stimulating madhouse that was the IC in the 1970s.

Always an excellent player and coach, Bill demanded much of his teams: a member of his soccer 1st XI recalls running up and down the steep sides of Duke’s Meadow until he was ready to drop – or as Bill would have put it, ‘reached peak fitness’. Such was the success of football at the time that it threatened to rival rugby as the premier ascendant sport. It was, however, on the cricket field that he excelled: a prolific and obdurate opening batsman, he was limpet-like at the crease, a big man who hit the ball with considerable power and was captain of the Vine.

At Sevenoaks, then still a bachelor, he helped lead a memorable 6000-mile expedition to Scandinavia (remembered with great fondness in the 2023 Sennockian by Guy Hollamby). A colleague remembers him as indeed ‘someone you’d want at your side’. When a thunderstorm outside Rheims split their tent roof, Bill calmly went and bought a new one the next morning. Bill also sang and his pleasure in choral music led him to his lifelong partner, Alison.

When Bill left Sevenoaks in 1986, he went to Brentwood School, remaining there until retirement in 2008. The term ‘all-round schoolmaster’ can be a cliché but it is only when one looks at someone like Bill that the full meaning becomes apparent. While reviewing the recent tributes to Bill, the words of Wren’s epitaph, adapted, come to mind: Lector, si monumenta quaeris, memorias audi – ‘Reader, if you seek his monument, listen to the memories’.

John Guyatt, Undermaster 1990-2003 (OS 1961)

Ann Murray
1947-2024

Former staff

Ann Murray began teaching recorder at Sevenoaks School in 1983, having graduated from Trinity College of Music under the tutelage of Professor Edgar Hunt, and retired in 2022. She transformed opinions of the recorder and established it as a serious instrument integral to the school’s Music department. Student enrolment in recorder lessons soared under her guidance, but what truly marked her success was the number of students who continued lessons into the Sixth Form – testament to her passion and the enthusiasm she inspired.

Ann was an advocate of a well-rounded musical education, with no shortcuts. She warmly encouraged all her students to sing in choirs and take part in chamber music. They regularly performed concertos with chamber orchestras, and she seized every opportunity to bring the recorder to the concert stage. One highlight was a remarkable performance of Bach’s Brandenburg Concerto No 4 at the Purcell Room, in London, in 2003, featuring recorder soloists Alec Frank-Gemmill and Emily Hastings.

Her dedication to the craft of teaching was matched by her joy in and unwavering support for the Music department. Ann was a constant presence at school concerts irrespective of whether her students were performing.

Kind, generous and quietly influential, Ann never sought the spotlight but profoundly enriched the Music department through her gentle and steadfast encouragement. She supported every student from the young beginner to the most advanced music scholar and leaves a lasting legacy on the school’s music community. Our thoughts are with Ann’s husband Peter.

Christopher Dyer

Matthew Best
1957-2025

OS 1975

Matthew Robert Best was born in Farnborough, Kent, and joined Sevenoaks School in 1968 at the age of 11.

He was brought up in a household where his parents listened regularly to classical music on the radio. One day when still quite young he heard someone on the radio singing the role of Wotan in Wagner’s Ring Cycle and said to his parents, ‘I’m going to sing that one day,’ quite unaware how true that would turn out to be. While at primary school Matthew taught himself to play the harmonica, and his first instrument was the clarinet.

In 1973, at the start of the Lower Sixth, Matthew founded a madrigal choir of just eight singers, including a few members of the teaching staff. Called the Corydon Singers, this small group quickly grew in size and ambition and became one of the foremost chamber choirs in the country, with a sizeable and extremely successful discography under the Hyperion Records label. Matthew somehow managed to keep the choir going in its early days while he was a choral scholar at King’s College, Cambridge, and then a student at the National Opera Studio, from where he joined the Royal Opera, Covent Garden, as a principal bass.

After going freelance, Matthew pursued a dual career as both singer and conductor. He made appearances as guest conductor with a host of orchestras, most notably and frequently with the English Chamber Orchestra and London Mozart Players, but also ensembles such as the Royal Liverpool Philharmonic and the BBC National Orchestra of Wales. For the 1998-99 season he was principal conductor of the Hanover Band.

Eventually, Matthew had to decide between conducting and singing. He chose singing and went on to perform over 100 bass and bass-baritone operatic roles. Between 2000 and 2003 he made a reality of his boyhood prediction that he would sing the role of Wotan, doing so triumphantly for Scottish Opera’s production of Wagner’s Ring Cycle.

Adding to his list of accomplishments, from 2014 Matthew became a much sought-after teacher at the Royal Northern College of Music. Held in the highest regard by staff and students alike, he was awarded a Fellowship in April 2025. Apart from being a consummate musician, Matthew loved literature, art, travel and all things Italian, not least double espressos! Above all, he loved his family by whom he will ever be remembered as a devoted father to Natasha and Alexander, grandfather to Charlie and Lara, brother to Jonathan (OS 1978) and husband to Roz.

Peter Young and Roz Best

Peter Martin
1933-2025

OS 1950

Peter Holmes Martin, a remarkable individual known for his warmth, humour and zest for life, passed away peacefully on 7 January 2025 aged 91.

Born on 27 January 1933, Peter lived a full and inspiring life. He spent his formative years at Sevenoaks School from 1944 to 1950, where his love for academics and extra-curricular activities began to take shape. His adventurous spirit led to service in the RAF where he flew Vampire jets, showcasing courage and skill. Peter then embarked on his professional journey as an articled clerk, carving out a distinguished career in accounting and business management. After diverse roles in different industries, Peter and his wife Thelma spent three wonderful years in Paris, where he finished his corporate career at a prominent French company.

After retiring, Peter tapped into his creative side and began building furniture, transforming this passion into a small yet successful business. His craftsmanship was a testament to his ingenuity and ability to find joy in the details of life.

Peter shared a beautiful marriage with Thelma from 1958 until her death in 2011. Together, they raised two sons, Chris and Ian, who became the proud fathers of Peter’s four cherished grandchildren: Sophie, Matt, Isabelle and Abbey. Peter was eagerly awaiting the arrival of his first great-granddaughter, Coco, whose birth he sadly missed by just a week. Peter is also survived by his elder brother John Martin (OS 1948).

Peter’s magnetic personality made him the heart and soul of every gathering. His ability to light up a room and bring joy to those around him was unparalleled and he formed countless friendships, each one a testament to his generous spirit.

Peter was a lover of sports and an avid fan of tennis, rugby and car racing, his enthusiasm reflecting his spirited approach to life. He had a wicked wit and immense charm, remaining as sharp as a tack until his very last day. As we mourn his passing, we also celebrate his extraordinary life. He leaves a cherished legacy of creativity and the love and laughter he brought into our lives. The world was a better place when he was with you.

Peter’s memory will be carried forward by his family, friends, and all who were fortunate enough to know him. May he rest in peace, knowing he brought light and joy to so many.

Ian Martin (OS 1979) and Sophie Parsons

Martyn Gregory
1955-2024

OS 1974

Martyn John Gregory was born in 1955 and joined Sevenoaks School in 1966. By the time he left school, a flame had been lit which subsequently drove him towards a highly successful career as a broadcaster and investigative journalist. Indeed, it was partly because of the awakening he received during a year in the International Centre that he discovered a passion for politics and current affairs; the charismatic Irish teacher Casey McCann opened Martyn’s eyes to the excitement of debate and, along with the experience of living with students from all over the world, Martyn moved on to university with a fresh perspective and significant ambition.

He studied Politics at Loughborough, where he became President of the Student Union, then a PhD at Leicester, before joining the BBC as a trainee producer. He was soon producing films, which became increasingly investigative. Echoing Casey, he was unafraid of defying authority and relished confrontation. In  1995, he wrote, directed and produced The Torture Trail for Channel 4’s Dispatches, which won the National Television Society’s Best Documentary Award. However, Michael Heseltine claimed that Martyn had fabricated evidence which implicated the government. In taking the UK government to the High Court and successfully suing for libel, at no small risk to himself, Martyn became the first journalist ever to do so. A full apology, plus substantial damages, resulted.

Martyn wrote a bestselling book, Dirty Tricks, which revealed the extraordinary measures that British Airways employed in attempting to put the fledgling Virgin Atlantic out of business. Richard Branson later told Martyn his company would have gone under without Martyn’s work in exposing corporate skulduggery, and the British Airways Chairman, Lord King, was forced to angrily resign. A TV series based on Martyn’s book is nearing production, under the title Hot Air, which should be streamed next year. Martyn’s other bestselling book was Diana: The Last Days, which countered the conspiracy theories about Princess Diana’s death and earned him the title of ‘the world’s leading authority on the crash’ from many media outlets. He was in demand for many years from countless newspapers and TV channels and became a persistent thorn in Mohamed Al Fayed’s side. Martyn’s work was endorsed in its entirety by the eventual inquest.

Away from work,  Martyn had many passions, including Manchester United and The Beatles, whom he had met in Knole Park, but most notably cricket. He played for five years in the school 1st XI which included future England players Chris Tavaré and Paul Downton, and subsequently in club cricket for The Vine and Holmesdale. Martyn was diagnosed with MS in 1997 and his career was cut short as his illness developed. He will be remembered by many for journalism that was principled, daring and fearless in his pursuit of justice.

Image credit: PA Images/Alamy stock photo

Nigel Henson
1951-2024

OS 1969

Nigel Hugh George Henson was born in 1951. Apart from golf, Nigel’s interests included writing, music and the countryside. After graduating from the University of Oxford, he used his writing  skills in his career in corporate and marketing communications. Nigel represented clients including Unilever, Nationwide, Toyota, the London Docklands Development Corporation, the Industrial Development Board for Northern Ireland and the European Union, working in London, Sydney and Brussels in senior consultancy roles.

Later, he pursued his love of the countryside and its traditional way of life, campaigning for the Countryside Alliance. Music remained Nigel’s private passion, playing the piano every day and  always discovering new styles of music; he loved everything from Bach to the Beach Boys to Jacob Collier. Nigel was also an enthusiastic supporter of the OS Golf Society.

Peter Hirschmann
1937-2024

OS 1955

Peter Norman Hirschmann was born on 20 November 1937. He and I were the two scholarship boys starting together in School House in September 1951. The house was also home to the Headmaster, ‘Jimmy’ Higgs-Walker, and rather unfairly favoured over its boarding rival, Johnsons.

My first memory of Peter has him eagerly urging me to read A Labrador Doctor: The Autobiography of Wilfred Thomason Grenfell. I remember thinking it was an eccentric choice for young chaps like us. But perhaps Peter already knew that medicine would be his calling; his father was a GP with a practice in Hampstead Garden Suburb.

As a 13-year-old, Peter, bless him, was the very image of the stereotypical swot. With round shoulders and spectacles, sallow complexion and a nasal tone of voice, he was even less athletic – if that were possible – than myself. Yet there was a dignity about him and a degree of self-possession that commanded respect, before one even got to his intellectual giftedness and seriousness of purpose.

For all our time at Sevenoaks, Peter and I had our beds in the smallest dormitory, D Dorm, on the first floor between Matron’s clinic and the Higgs-Walkers’ part of the house. A and B dorms were on the two floors above and as rowdy and boisterous as D Dorm was gentle and orderly. An occasional evening treat for us and other School House boys was listening to opera on 78rpm gramophone records with Mr Townson, the Park Grange house tutor. We owed a lot to him: he not only taught History, but introduced us to writers like Graham Greene and André Gide. In retrospect, I suppose the opera stuff was a bit risqué – Don Giovanni, Tosca, La Traviata – but the voices of Schwarzkopf, Sutherland, Callas and di Stefano delighted Peter and me for ever after.

In winter, everyone had to do rugby at least one afternoon a week. The most inept sports-wise, like us, played on Duke’s Meadow, a field we shared with a herd of cows. Peter and I were adept at ‘dodge the ball’: that, and avoiding tumbles into the cowpats. We also joined the CCF and – most unlikely – were considered officer material.

After leaving school in 1956, both Peter and I were in London. Peter studied Dentistry at Guy’s Hospital and University College and obtained his Fellowship in Dental Surgery of the Royal College of Surgeons of England in 1965. He was successful in obtaining a three-year Medical Research Council Junior Research Fellowship, part of which was spent at Harvard University. Peter had a long, illustrious career and a far-reaching influence on the development of the specialty of dental and maxillofacial radiology, winning a succession of awards. He worked in London and Manchester, and from 1992 until his retirement in 2002 he was Consultant Dental Radiologist and Senior Clinical Lecturer on Dental Radiology for the Leeds Teaching Hospitals NHS Trust. He was awarded a Fellowship of the Royal College of Radiologists (FRCR) without examination in 1998. Internationally, he was best known as Editor-in-Chief of Dentomaxillofacial Radiology, a post he held from 1988 to 2001.

Throughout his years in Yorkshire, Peter was active on the Leeds contemporary arts scene, lending energetic support to a range of local initiatives. He gave full licence to his love of theatre and classical music, never missing a concert of German lieder. And, with a discerning eye, he built up a significant collection of prints and other works on paper by modern British artists.

Peter is survived by Denise, his wife since 1968, and their two daughters Joanne and Catherine.

Robert Short (OS 1955)

Samuel Johns
1990-2024

OS 2008

Samuel Gregory Johns, a beloved son, brother, uncle and friend passed away on 19 April in Bletchingley, Surrey. Born in Redhill, Samuel’s life was a testament to living life to the full: ‘“I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.”’ (John 10:10)

Samuel was a man of extraordinary talents and passions. A self-described jack of all trades, he was certainly also a master of many. His brilliant mind enabled him to achieve the top first in his year in Geography at Oxford, while simultaneously excelling across several different fields. After gaining his Master’s in Geography at the University of British Columbia, he worked for Proctor and  Gamble, vowing that he would never sell his soul to a corporate and pointing out to the European director that the company was not living up to its ethical code! He then pursued a varied and unique career path.

Samuel’s passion for education led him to work as a private tutor with Bespoke Tuition. His fine intellect, gracious personality and neuro-flexibility helped him bring some of the toughest dysfunctional children back into an educational context. He spent 2023 tutoring in Malta, where he discovered free diving, and was due to tutor in Mexico later this year. In 2017, he set up PSD Plastics, a subsidiary to the Partnership for Sustainable Development (PSD) Nepal. Through recycling and upcycling of mountain PET plastic waste, he established an economic model for regeneration in the Langtang Valley, Kathmandu. This work continues, with the model to be rolled out in six other national parks. Samuel spent four months of the Covid lockdown in Nepal, refining his language fluency.

In 2018 he signed up with International Fellowship of Evangelical Students (IFES) Graduate Impact, helping to develop their strategy, writing teaching material and leading discussion groups for young professionals in Eastern Europe. A core motivator in Samuel’s life was his Christian faith, which gave him a deep desire, in a digital world, to understand and pursue human flourishing in the image of God. He joined TechHuman and worked as a consultant advising on the ethics of AI in the commercial world. In parallel, he engaged with local church life, leading youth groups, participating in worship bands and preaching. In 2022, he started a PhD with the Brussels School of Governance on human personhood in the age of automation: a study of modern identity formation in the Linkster Generation (Gen Z). This involved surveys and interviews with hundreds of young people on their interactions with technology.

Samuel’s love for the great outdoors was apparent to all. He was an avid cyclist, skier, snowboarder and mountain trekker. He was a true global citizen with homes away from home, including France and Nepal. His love of nature and mountaineering was born in the UK and France but grew into maturity under the snow-capped mountains of the Himalayas and Whistler.

In both his professional and personal life, Samuel inspired the people he met. Across his different walks of life he has left a lasting impact the world over. He is survived by his parents, Tim and Evelyne, his sister Marina and her husband Luke. He will be deeply missed by his niece and nephew, Elsa and Raphael. Samuel’s memory will live on through his family, friends and colleagues whose lives have been enriched by his unwavering love, generosity, kindness, support and joyful energy, so freely given.

Chris Warring
1947-2024

OS 1964

Born in Beckenham on 4 March 1947, Chris was the devoted son of Alice and Ron Warring. He was the younger brother of Michael, who passed away shortly before his 18th birthday. Chris attended Clare House Prep before joining Sevenoaks in 1960, leaving aged 17. After the tragic loss of Michael in 1962, Chris and his parents moved house, settling in Bosham in 1964.  Throughout his life, Chris often mentioned his brother and spoke of how he missed him.

Chris attended Chichester College and went on to various employments. He met Christine in 1987 when they were both civil servants. They celebrated their 20th wedding anniversary in 2023. As a young man, he enjoyed travelling and playing sport. In later years, Chris enjoyed watching sports on the television, especially rugby and Grand Prix motor racing. Chris was a quiet and modest man with a terrific sense of humour. Always conscientious and hardworking, he was honest and trustworthy; someone you could depend on absolutely. He loved animals and it is a comforting thought that he and Katie, his beloved Westie who died last year, will be reunited.

Kind, gentle, loving and a good man through and through, Chris was loved by many on both sides of the family. He will be much missed and remembered always with great love.

Mike Williams
1940-2024

Former staff

Mike will be remembered by most Old Sennockians for his passion in developing the individual through team sports, particularly rugby. This passion, allied to his genuine warmth, sympathy, humour and an often-extravagant charisma, made him a memorable colleague, leader and friend. Outside the school he was Head Coach of Sevenoaks Rugby Club, former player and 1st XV Vice -Captain of Blackheath RFC.

Robert Michael Williams was born in 1940 and grew up in Blaydon, County Durham. He was educated at Oundle School and later Bristol University where he was a member of the UAU (Universities Athletic Union) winning side in 1962. It is no exaggeration to say that his arrival on the teaching staff of Sevenoaks School in 1970 and his appointment as Master in Charge of Rugby revolutionised the attitude to team sport in the school, inspiring vigour and enthusiasm in team coaches and pupils alike. He changed the tone: no longer ‘play up and play the game’ but ‘play up and win the game’.

Just three years ago, Brendan Gallagher of the Daily Telegraph wrote a series of articles entitled ‘Great Rugby Schools’. All the expected schools were listed: Rossall, Haileybury, Wellington,  Millfield…and Sevenoaks. The big difference between Sevenoaks and the other schools was that our greatness was achieved over a much shorter period, specifically 1972-96: Mike’s coaching era. Described as a ‘human dynamo’ by Gallagher, Mike demonstrated truly outstanding coaching skills. His knowledge of the game and his passion to develop rugby at Sevenoaks bordered on the obsessive, and his techniques certainly had the desired effect. Stuart Thresher (OS 1981), who went on to play rugby professionally, was one of the first beneficiaries of the extraordinary coaching programme Mike introduced, which included pre-season tours to the Brecon Beacons and daily training sessions to strengthen every aspect of the players both physically and mentally. The  method was subsequently described in one of Mike’s publications, Water into Wine.

By the time Stuart approached the Sixth Form, Mike had already completed two major international tours with the school, during the first of which the Whitney Buccaneers RFC was born, and he was in the throes of arranging something altogether more ambitious: a circumnavigation of the globe. As a measure of Mike’s ambition, in 1980 the England national side had played nine games of rugby in New Zealand, and Sevenoaks School was a close second with seven games played there! A highlight of the tour was the game he arranged against Fiji in their national stadium in Suva, on the shores of the South Pacific with a 26,000-strong crowd, as a curtain-raiser to the Fiji vs All Blacks test match. Can there ever have been a greater game of school rugby?

The recent 50th anniversary reunion of that first side to be coached by Mike took on an added poignancy with the knowledge that he had died peacefully the day before. Mike had given them, and generations of schoolboy rugby players, a love of rugby, values which have stayed with them for life and the strongest group of friends anyone could ask for. In memory of that great day in Fiji, vinaka vakalevu, Mike!

Mike is survived by his beloved wife Rose and stepdaughter Klare.

Surya Burathoki 2023

Former Staff

It was with great sadness that we announced the death of our colleague Surya Burathoki in July. Surya joined Sevenoaks School as a Marshal in 2014. He is fondly remembered for his kindness and graciousness, and for greeting everyone with a smile. Surya was a constant source of support when the school faced many challenges during Covid. He quietly battled cancer in recent years, but still joined us back on campus when he felt able. Surya is greatly missed by his many friends and colleagues across the school, particularly the Marshals team. Our thoughts are with Surya’s family.

Jonty Driver
1939-2023

Former staff

Jonty Driver, poet, novelist, political activist and teacher, was one of Kim Taylor’s inspired appointments, joining Sevenoaks in 1964 in his first teaching post. An anti-apartheid  protester, his arrival from South Africa was delayed after he was arrested under the 90-day detention law and spent 30 days in solitary confinement.

He was born Charles Jonathan Driver in 1939 in Mowbray, a suburb of Cape Town, and attended St Andrew’s College in Grahamstown, where his father was chaplain. Jonty became involved in student politics while at the University of Cape Town, being elected President of the National Union of South African Students and becoming involved in student  protests. His father died just before his arrest and detainment.

Following a year teaching English at Sevenoaks, Jonty went to Oxford to study for an MPhil, before returning to the school in 1967. The following year he became Housemaster of the IC. At six foot four, he was a striking and commanding figure, but his teaching style was inspirational and encouraging, and he is remembered by Old Sennockians as a kind and hugely influential schoolmaster. After leaving Sevenoaks in 1973, he went on to other schools in England and Hong Kong, including three headships, completing his career as Master of Wellington College. Jonty was also a poet, novelist and biographer. He was an honorary senior lecturer in the School of Literature and Creative Writing at the University of East Anglia.

He was a great friend and supporter of Sevenoaks and stayed in contact with many Old Sennockians. It was a great pleasure to see him and his wife Ann, back at the school in June 2022 for the Annual Reunion Lunch. Sevenoaks played an important role in their lives and they had great affection for the school. Jonty is survived by his wife, Ann, whom he met and married in 1967, their three children, Dominic, Dax and Tamlyn, and eight grandchildren.

George Gatling
1929-2023

OS 1947

George Evered Gatling was born in Bromley, Kent, in 1929. He joined Sevenoaks School in 1941 as one of 50 boarders in School House. He always spoke very fondly of his time at Sevenoaks,  although it was not always easy in wartime, with cold baths and basic meals. When he started, a boy named Barry Kember was asked to be his ‘shadow’ to show him around and explain the various house customs. George never forgot Barry’s kindness, and, in later years, when reminiscing about his schooldays, would often mention him.

The 50 boys were only allowed two newspapers a day to share – a fact George often remarked on in later life! It encouraged a lifelong love of newspapers, and until the end he always liked to have his own paper to read every day. In George’s words, ‘The Headmaster, Mr JA Higgs-Walker, was a stern but kindly man who believed in Victorian ways. He had little time for anyone who was interested in science, believing only historians were fit for anything.’ George, therefore, with his love of the humanities over science, got on well with the Head!

George particularly enjoyed rugby and played in the inter-house matches, where there seemed to be great rivalry between School House and Johnsons, the only two boarding houses. He was also in the debating society and one of his teachers suggested he try acting; he really enjoyed this and performed in a number of school plays including The School for Scandal. His love of acting continued as an adult in amateur dramatic groups. George took English Literature, English Language and Latin for Higher School certificate and he would have liked to have been a teacher or a journalist, but didn’t want to go to university. However, he did write for his local paper in Petts Wood, edited a local political journal and wrote a Latin primer. On leaving school, George worked in a London paper merchants before joining an import and export business, where he stayed for nine years. He married Sheila, and joined her in her father’s wholesale jewellery business in Hatton Garden. Together, as company directors, they worked hard to build up a very well-respected company, serving jewellery shops all over the UK and abroad. They retired in 1992 and moved to Eastbourne where they had many happy years together.

Sheila passed away in 2021 and despite missing her greatly, George continued to live independently until his sudden death in January 2023. He had the fighting spirit of many of his generation who lived through the war, and was always cheerful, counting his blessings right until the end. He is survived by his sister Marguerite, and was a loving father to Wendy, Gillian and Peter, and grandfather to Laura, Jamie, Becky, Ben and Daisy. He is greatly missed by all who knew him.

Timothy Gould 1944-2023

OS 1963

Timothy Gould was born in 1944 in Harrogate. He moved to Sevenoaks in 1951 where he boarded at The New Beacon School, which was to play a special and significant role throughout his life. He subsequently attended Sevenoaks School (Hardinge 1957-63), then Trinity College Dublin where he studied Mathematics. Tim started working in insurance as a Risk Assessor with Sedgwick’s in the City of London, then moved to AIG. He travelled all over the world with work including Hong Kong, Jordon, USA, Philippines and Chile. Towards the end of his career, Tim moved to Heath Lambert and then more local companies in and around Sevenoaks.

A keen and talented sportsman, Tim gained full colours at Sevenoaks School playing rugby and went on to play for England Schoolboys, Harlequins and Saracens. He played cricket (which secured him his job with Sedgwick’s) and golf, and enjoyed sailing, swimming, athletics, skiing and bobsleigh (which he did while at Sevenoaks). He was a member of several local clubs including Knole Park Golf Club, Chipstead Sailing Club and Holmesdale Cricket Club. Later, he shared his love of sport with his family taking active holidays in Cornwall, Switzerland and the South of France.

He met Judith Dance following an old boy’s cricket match at The New Beacon School where she was the matron. They married in the school’s St George’s Chapel in 1980. The chapel was also where their three children and, later, grandchildren were christened, and where both Judy’s memorial in 1996 and Tim’s recent memorial were held.

Tim lived at Silverley in Oakhill Road for 70 years, which his father had built and where he grew up, as did his children. He moved to Sackville Place for the last few months of his life. He was a fantastic father to Sophie, Annabelle and Emily, and dearly loved grandfather to Caspar, Pip, Thisbe and William.

Sophie Duncan

Richard Kempton
1948-2023

OS 1966

Richard attended St Thomas’s primary school and went on to Sevenoaks School in 1961, following in his father Claude’s footsteps. He was proud of his education and his ability to translate  anything from German to English. After gaining his BA in Business and Languages at City of London Polytechnic, he went to work for Stone Manganese Marine, who made bronze propellers for  tankers and bulk carriers. Ten years later Richard entered the field of computing, working for ISG and then Hardware 2000, finally going back into sales at Salter, the kitchenware company based in Tonbridge.

In the early 1990s he decided to follow one of his passions, golf. He learned how to make golf clubs and set up a custom fit business in Hadlow. He named it Simply Golf and, with the help of  industry icon Tom Wishon, became one of the most well-known and respected club makers in the UK and Europe. He was European Club Maker of the Year 2001-02. Richard’s thirst for knowledge and his engineering background led him to pioneer the new concept of Moment of Inertia (MOI) matching. This refined the major golf club manufacturers’ claims of mass-produced matched sets which, following extensive testing, he was inclined to suggest were anything but! He became one of the most trusted craftsmen in his field and advised fellow clubmakers, European Tour professionals, gifted amateurs and those less fortunate, with equal enthusiasm and respect.

Richard’s career was cut short by the onset of motor neurone disease, but he has left a lasting legacy in his chosen field.

Hugh
Llewellyn-Jones
1939-2023

OS 1956

Hugh’s family arrived in Sevenoaks in the late 1940s, having spent the war years in Colwyn Bay where his father was sent by the Ministry for Food and Agriculture at the outbreak of war. He  claimed honorary Welsh citizenship when it suited him, notably when the rugby team was all-conquering.

Hugh joined Sevenoaks in 1954. He excelled at school, particularly in History as a pupil of Duncan Townson, and went to Oxford in 1957 where he put his considerable card skills to good use,  winning a Blue at the bridge table. Hugh’s parents had been first-class bridge players and he and his brother Peter had many successful years in partnership, winning regional and national events together.

Hugh trained as a Chartered Accountant with Deloitte and went into merchant banking, firstly with Williams & Glyn and then MacPhersons. Never one to rest on his laurels, Hugh left the City and embraced different challenges (he got bored easily). In later life, Hugh offered accounting, tax and financial advisory services and built a property rental business. He also, famously, won an  invitation-only high stakes poker event in Las Vegas – what a talent!

Hugh and his wife Patsy were a formidable couple – good golfers, bridge players and great company. He represented the Old Sennockians Golf Society with distinction for many years and was  always fun to be with. We shall miss him.

Professor
Tom McLeish FRS 1962-2023

OS 1980

Tom was one of the world’s true polymaths and will surely be fondly remembered for his irrepressible enthusiasm and insatiable curiosity about the world, his engaging and  entertaining manner, and his warmth, kindness and generosity to all.

Tom was born and grew up in North Kent. He joined Sevenoaks School in 1973 and there is no doubt that the remarkable teachers set Tom on the path to such an extraordinarily rich and fruitful life. It was from Sevenoaks that he was launched onto Emmanuel College, Cambridge to study Physics and Theoretical Physics, and gain a PhD in Polymer Physics.

Tom was a great supporter of Sevenoaks and enjoyed returning to give talks, meet staff and students and to hear about the school to which he owed so much. He also gave guidance as Chair of the Institute of Teaching and Learning Advisory Board.

Tom believed, passionately, that science is a God-given gift and spent a lifetime developing a theology of science. He worked tirelessly to make science engaging and accessible to all. Tom’s academic research started with the disentanglement of real-world polymers. He took existing ideas and made them much better; he introduced entirely new ways of thinking. Tom also took delight in showing how mathematical ideas can unite different scientific disciplines and was internationally recognised for his interdisciplinary research.

Two of his long-term projects speak volumes for his passions: the Ordered Universe Project involving a unique configuration of natural scientists, social scientists, humanities  scholars and artists to explore the work of the 13th century polymath Robert Grosseteste; and Equipping Christian Leadership in an Age of Science (ECLAS) to create opportunities for church leaders to connect with science.

Tom won the highest prizes from the British, European and US Societies of Rheology – the Gold Medal, the Weissenberg Award and the Bingham Medal. In 2011 he was elected as Fellow of the Royal Society and became Chair of the Education Committee where he played a key role in national curriculum development and science education. Besides these achievements, Tom was Pro Vice-Chancellor at Durham University, and in 2018 he joined the University of York as Chair in Natural Philosophy – a title that he chose, and which fitted the unique academic that he was. In the same year, the Archbishop of Canterbury presented Tom with the Lanfranc Award for Education and Scholarship. Tom also authored many books, including Faith and Wisdom in Science and The Poetry and Music of Science.

Tom lived life to the full. He loved hill-walking and scuba diving, singing and playing the French horn, and travelling the world. He loved Schumann, the Old Testament book of Job, and spending time with his wife Julie, four children and their growing families. He was a lay reader in the church and took any opportunity to share the faith and hope he had in
Jesus – right until the end. Tom loved people and was widely and deeply loved.

Julie McLeish

Anthony Miles 1944-2023

OS 1962

Anthony Warren Miles passed away on 16 March 2023 at home in San Francisco, California. He was born in Wimbledon and spent his early years in Derbyshire, after which his family moved to Sevenoaks.

Anthony attended Sevenoaks Prep, then Sevenoaks School from 1957 to 1962, where he became Head Boy under Headmaster LC (Kim) Taylor, supporting the school as a benefactor in later years. He went on to Clare College, Cambridge where he obtained his undergraduate degree in English and served as College President. After Cambridge he attended Yale University on a Mellon Fellowship, where he earned an MA in American Studies and met and married his wife, Landra. After two years back in Europe, Anthony returned to the United States to earn an MBA from Harvard Business School.

Anthony worked for 29 years at the Boston Consulting Group, first in Boston, then in California. From 1970 he and his wife lived in San Francisco and at Lake Tahoe. On retirement, he joined the boards of the San Francisco Symphony, St. Luke’s Hospital, Presidio Golf Club, California Pacific Medical Center, and the Brotherton Fund.

Anthony is survived by his wife of 55 years, Landra, his two sons Marcus and Aidan and his beloved granddaughters, Adabel and Elora, and by his brother John Miles and his sister Penelope Goulden, both living in Kent.

John Miles (OS 1970)

Terry Newbury
1959-2023

Former staff

Terry Newbury worked in the maintenance team of the Estates department from 1998 to 2021. He had previously been a Royal Marines Commando.

Terry was a familiar cheery face around the campus, a valued colleague who was reliable and always ready to step in to help. With a calm approach to life, he had a wicked sense of humour with a joke for every occasion delivered in his easy and amiable manner. He was a family man, with three grown-up children, and stayed loyal to his love of motorbikes, rock music and Leicester City Football Club.

It was a great sadness when we heard that Terry had passed away. His generosity and many kindnesses will not be forgotten.

Paul Noble
1972-2023

OS 1991

Paul was born in Camberwell in 1972, and in 1980 moved with his family to Sevenoaks where his parents owned and managed the Sevenoaks Park Hotel. Paul studied at Sevenoaks Prep and then Sevenoaks School (Sackville 1987-91) where he made many lifelong friends and was known for his beaming smile and his love of football, movies and music. He took joy in recommending his favourite bands to his classmates and by his late teens his video collection read like an A to Z of great film directors.

After school Paul studied English Literature at Kingston University, then a Master’s in Anglo-American Literary Relations, which would prove rather apt later in his life. He accepted a role at Curio, a London film promotions agency, first in account service but quickly switching to his passion of creative writing. After five successful years, he moved on to The Creative Partnership as Head Writer and accolades soon followed, including a Golden Trailer award for his work on The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy. Next, Paul joined Wonderland as Group Creative Director, where his work continued to garner recognition.

It was around this time that Paul married the love of his life, Esme Baker, who also hailed from the Sevenoaks area and had been in the same circle of friends (many of them OS) since they were 16 years old. They went on to have two wonderful children, Rudy and Jean. In 2017 Sony Pictures came calling and Paul and his family moved to Los Angeles. He was initially hired as Executive Vice President of International Marketing but became Co-President of Global Marketing, overseeing the release of a string of worldwide box office hits including Sony’s biggest ever success, Spider-Man: No Way Home.

In June 2021, out of the blue, Paul was diagnosed with the rare and terminal bulbar ALS, which attacks control of the tongue and throat, affecting speech, swallowing and eventually breathing. Despite such a terrible prognosis, he maintained an optimistic outlook and continued to work from home right up until his final weeks. On 9 September 2023, Paul passed away peacefully
at Ronald Reagan UCLA Medical Centre at the age of 51. As the sun came up, his wife, parents, brother and three of his best friends were at his bedside, including Old Sennockians Adam Cossey and Ben Harris.

Those that knew Paul knew him as an incredible dad who prioritised his family above all else. He was compassionate, kind, gentle, funny, and a person of incredible strength and high integrity. Paul was renowned for his beaming smile and laidback, cheerful personality and he left a lasting impression on many friends and colleagues.

In October 2023 Sony Pictures honoured Paul with a wonderful Celebration of Life event which was live-streamed around the world. Tom Rothman, CEO and Chairman of Sony Pictures, paid an emotional tribute to Paul, calling him ‘a blazing talent and a dear friend’. Paul’s Sevenoaks classmates Ben, Adam and Dave Billing also paid tribute.

Sandra O’Brien
1961-2023

OS 1979

Sandra O’Brien (nee Thompson) was born in Salisbury, Rhodesia (now Harare, Zimbabwe) on 16 September 1961 to Malcom and Sylvia Thompson. The paediatrician’s failure to check the positioning of her hip led to scoliosis and ongoing back problems that would impact the rest of her life. The Thompsons came back from Zimbabwe following Rhodesia’s Unilateral Declaration of Independence in 1965. They settled in Oxted, Surrey, and Sandra attended St Michael’s prep school. The family moved again in 1974, this time to Monte Carlo, until 1975. When the family returned to the UK, Sandra was a fluent French speaker – with, she always insisted, a very good accent!

Sandra joined Sevenoaks as one of the first intake of boarding girls into the Sixth Form in 1977. She loved her time at the school and made some lifelong friendships. She particularly enjoyed the regular reunions of that first intake of girls. From Sevenoaks, Sandra attended the London School of Economics, eventually settling on a degree in Economic and Social History (to which she referred almost as much as her needlework O-level). Starting her career in marketing, she eventually found herself at Price Waterhouse, where she met Marc O’Brien, her future husband. Sandra spent many years at PW and then PwC, eventually becoming a director with a transatlantic team in London and Florida. She stepped down from PwC following the births of Phoebe in 1996 and Fergus in 1998.

Following a break to raise her family, Sandra found herself working in parliament as case worker for Sam Gyimah MP. She helped many, many constituents with cases ranging from housing issues  to a military extraction from a Middle Eastern country (arranged from the kitchen table). With the turmoil of Brexit she left parliament and joined the Citizens Advice Bureau where her diligence, sharp intellect and lack of patience was put to good use serving people in and around Caterham. In June 2020, Sandra and Marc moved to Tunbridge Wells where they continued to enjoy all the town had to offer (especially the restaurants and bars).

Sandra died on 31 October 2023 following a very short illness. She was 62. She is survived by her husband, Marc, and children Phoebe and Fergus.

Simon Prodger 1959-2023

OS 1978

Prodge, as he was universally known, was born into a family steeped in cricket and was brought up initially in Kenya. Prodge’s father Peter played for Kenya and East Africa so it was firstly there, and then after the family returned to the UK, that the young Prodge fell in love with cricket.

Prodge was fuelled with a natural spirit of enquiry and curiosity. He liked learning, not so much from the textbook, but through observation and self-discovery. At Sevenoaks, Prodge didn’t find the academic side of life straightforward – the dyslexia with which he contended was poorly understood – but he excelled at sport. Cricket was his real passion and he relished the competition of league cricket playing at Harlow CC, Hoddesdon CC, Harefield CC and Watford Town CC. Beyond this, he played for Stroud Green CC in Haringey, represented the MCC on 113 occasions, was a regular for the Kenya Kongonis and Stragglers of Asia and, in later years, for Bucks Over-50s.

Prodge’s contribution as a cricket player was enormous, and so too was the service he gave to the game as an administrator and trustee of many cricket-related charities. As MD of the Club Cricket and National Cricket Conference, as trustee of the Club Cricket Charity and East Africa Character Development Trust, he fought tirelessly to represent the recreational game and community clubs and in establishing the National Asian Cricket Council and the African Caribbean Cricket Association, to help players from these communities become better integrated into cricket’s mainstream. Suffice to say there’s a theme running throughout Prodge’s cricketing involvements; he sought to make it a game for everyone. It was entirely fitting that the MCC honoured Prodge posthumously with a Community Cricket Hero award.

Someone remarked to me recently: ‘In every conversation with Prodge, he made you feel as if you were his only friend.’ Of course, he had thousands of friends. But such was his remarkable capacity for making every person he encountered feel special.

Nick Gandon

Duncan Townson
1927-2023

Former staff

Duncan Townson was for generations of Sevenoaks students a deeply influential, inspirational figure. It is no exaggeration to say that those who read History at university seldom experienced  better teaching.  Cambridge historian, Housemaster of Park Grange, author, Yorkshireman, cricketer, opera lover, he served between 1952 and 1987 under five headmasters. Penetratingly  intelligent, direct of speech, he respected those who aspired to similar levels of professionalism, honesty and intellectual rigour.

Second-rate historians, fraudulent politicians and many English cricketers he dismissed as ‘clowns’. For him, history involved voracious reading, critical rigour and an impressive openness to new ideas: 60 years ago he and Kim Taylor pioneered a cross-curricular, global syllabus, PEB (Predicament, Experience, Belief), that opened young eyes to prehistory, the rise of civilisations and the great empires; occasionally idiosyncratic in his selections for study, he once dismissed a plea for more time to be given to the Roman Empire with, ‘Not important.’ His knowledge of Russian history, particularly the October Revolution, was close to intimidating, although the Sixth Formers he taught for an A-level special subject were indeed privileged. Equally impressive was his knowledge of the French Revolution, his book upon which became a standard text. Duncan was Housemaster of Park Grange for many years, and with his wife Lesley and their children created a warm and caring boarding community; utterly straightforward and fair, he stood up for his boys but expected high standards of them. It was during this time that he and the family set off on summer-long expeditions to Morocco and, notably, Iran. In retirement he was commissioned by Penguin to write two dictionaries: Modern History 1789-1945 and Contemporary History: 1945 to  the Present, as well as Breve historia de Inglaterra for Spanish readers. In his mid-90s, his reading ranged from the latest book on the 1848 Revolutions to a scholarly comparison of Spanish and Aztec civilisations.

Above all, Duncan was a good friend to so many colleagues, students and former students, some of whom went on to distinguished academic careers. If I think of Duncan, it is of him playing for the Orbillians cricket team, drinking in the Oak Tap (the ever-increasing price of a pint was a constant preoccupation), of his intellectual passion and of his love of opera and art. He was at Sevenoaks at a time of immense change and embodied so much of what many regard as the essence of the school.

Paul Harrison 1953-2022

Former Staff

I think of Paul, who taught English at Sevenoaks from 1979 until his retirement in 2017, walking towards the station, briefcase, rolled umbrella; that particular smile as he asks a gentle, courteous question; the surprising – no, wholly unsurprising – width of his knowledge: and realise how much the school and his friends owe him, someone who shared so generously of his intellect, humour and kindness. Recalling his time in prelapsarian Kabul, writing of India, talking of the garden at Magdalene, his enthusiasm enveloped one. With the arts also: never conservative in his taste he was nonetheless more an admirer of Borromini than Bauhaus, a reason why at Cambridge, and to the immense benefit of so many future pupils, he switched from Architecture to English Literature. He enjoyed others’ views and interests: you might mention a lesser Edwardian novelist – J Meade Falkner for instance – and he would light up and say he’d just seen a copy in Hall’s Bookshop. To the end he remained open to new pleasures: Fauré’s chamber music or an unfulfilled wish to see the Cambridge exhibition of the treasures of ancient Uzbekistan.

Besides his learning, the backdrop to his life was his family and the lovely flat in Tunbridge Wells that it delighted him to tell you was where Thackeray’s sister had stayed. The elegant bookshelves lining the
corridor he built himself. But sustaining him, especially in his illness, were his wife Louisa and son Thomas: their importance for him would be hard to exaggerate and they were indeed fortunate in each other.

As a teacher he ranged from The Tale of Genji to The Winter’s Tale, a play ‘reserved for especially privileged classes’. He liked to quote Thomas Mann, ‘Only the exhaustive can be truly interesting’ – and it is a rare teacher able to embrace both. Education, teaching, were about opening windows to those things that really matter. As he wrote to me: ‘I’ve always been grateful for attending a school where art and music were taken as seriously as anything else: I remember (one of those “spots of time”) listening to some pieces of Debussy piano music one sunny morning in a Sixth Form class, thinking to myself, “Life can get no better than this: whatever unpleasantnesses may be in the world, this will be there too.”’ As on so many things, how right Paul was.

John Guyatt, Undermaster 1990-2003

Robert
Wilkinson OBE 1933-2023

Former Governor and Trustee

Bob, born Robert Purdy Wilkinson, grew up in Seaham, County Durham and was head boy at Ryhope Grammar School. He read politics and economics at the University of  Durham, where he met June Palmer. They married in 1957 and celebrated 65 years together.

After graduating, Bob’s national service with the Royal Army Educational Corps took him to Trieste, after which he returned to Durham to study for a diploma in education. He was a teacher, briefly, and subsequently a stockbroker in the City of London. His interest was the enforcement of financial regulations and prevention of insider training, and he was appointed the first inspector of the London Stock Exchange, a position he held until 1984, and subsequently Director of Surveillance. He was key to modernising the London Stock Exchange’s Regulatory News Service (RNS), and instrumental in establishing the Securities and Investments Board, now part of the Financial Conduct Authority. Bob was awarded an OBE in 1990 for his services to the Stock Exchange, and he advised many international governments on financial regulation matters.

Bob became a Governor of Sevenoaks School in 1990 and the Chair from 1999 to 2002; he oversaw significant changes including the switch from A-levels to all Sixth Formers  taking the IB Diploma. He also served as Chair of Trustees of the Sevenoaks School Foundation from its inception in 2004 to 2012. He was a great and longstanding supporter of the school, and three of his grandchildren, Jonty, Jeremy and Laurence, are all Old Sennockians.

Bob had a passion for cricket and could be seen regularly watching school matches at Solefields, and at the Vine Cricket Club – he celebrated 50 years’ membership of the club in 2019. Even when his health deteriorated, we kept him up to date with news of sporting events, especially rugby, football and cricket – he would have been delighted about England’s third-test win over Australia at Headingley!

Bob will be sadly missed by all who knew him, particularly his devoted wife June, daughters Katie and Suki, seven grandchildren and two great-granddaughters.

Jonty Warner (OS 2005)

Robert Bowyer 1947-2022

OS 1965

Born in Cheshire, Robert moved to Petts Wood as a baby. He was educated in Chislehurst and at Sevenoaks School where he enjoyed academic subjects and excelled at sport, in particular running and rugby. He loved mountain walking trips and forming friendships with pupils from different parts of the world.

Rob joined Latham & Co, London as a trainee accountant but realised that this wasn’t the right career for him. Friends persuaded him that he had the qualities to make a good teacher and suggested that he enrol at Trinity College, Carmarthen; there he met his wife Elizabeth.

He taught Maths in Broadstairs and was later appointed to a post in a special school in the Forest of Dean. Five years on he became Head of Special Educational Needs at Milford Haven School. There he rekindled his interest in outdoor activities, leading Duke of Edinburgh’s Award expeditions, later becoming an assessor. He was involved with the National Association for Special Educational Needs and became Pembrokeshire’s SEN Adviser, facilitating the integration of pupils with learning difficulties into mainstream schools. Rob had a particular ability to empathise with pupils who presented challenging behaviour and to enthuse and encourage youngsters of all ages, finding their positive qualities and providing opportunities in which they could flourish.

Rob also served on the local council, becoming Mayor of Fishguard and Goodwick in 1993. He was especially proud to have been involved in the twinning of the towns with Loctudy in Brittany. He worked hard to raise funds for local and national bodies, and lobbied ministers in Cardiff and Westminster on important local issues.

In retirement Rob became a Rotarian and a local supporter of the RNLI. He was an avid newspaper reader, a follower of politics and interested in history. He grew vegetables and enjoyed cooking his produce. He adored travelling and, as a proud European, was passionate about France where he frequently visited his daughter and family. He was also very keen on driving over tortuous mountain passes, eating in Michelin star restaurants and discussing rugby in the local bar wherever he stayed!

His death was a great blow to his family and friends. He cared passionately about others and lived life to the full. He was a proud father to his three children and loved being a grandfather and godfather, always cheerful, positive and greatly loved, admired and respected by all who knew him.

Liz Bowyer

Revd John
Robin Keeley
1938-2022

OS 1957

John Robin Keeley, a former Head Boy at Sevenoaks, passed away in Australia. He was an ordained priest, a commissioning editor for Lion Hudson publishing and The Society for Promoting Christian Knowledge (SPCK), and a tutor. Robin was a dearly loved husband to Pauline, father to Bridget and Caroline, stepfather to Christa and Zoe, and a lovely grandad and great-grandad. He was a man full of gentleness and compassion, great wit and humour, a good listener and a wise counsellor.

Pauline Keeley

Ron Knight
1930-2022

OS 1947

Ron Frank Knight was a pupil at Sevenoaks School between 1945 and 1947 as a boarder in Johnsons. After leaving school he went on to manage the family business, Attwoods department store in Bromley. After his children were born, he retrained as a blacksmith, winning many awards for his beautiful wrought ironwork. He was fit and well right up until his death, even enjoying flying a spitfire for his 90th birthday.

Anthony Lunch 1945-2022

OS 1963

Anthony Lunch was born on 13 February 1945. He learnt to sail, aged 10, at Chipstead Sailing Club, moving on to that hotbed of sailing talent, Sevenoaks School. Of this time, Anthony said: ‘Before long I was a very junior member of the Sevenoaks team and from then on my abilities improved and my love of team racing was fuelled by exciting fixtures and senior boys’ expert tuition. All this culminated in the Public Schools Championships when we were lucky enough to win and bring home a new Firefly to join the school fleet. In all my years of racing, this remains one of the highlights!’

After Sevenoaks, Anthony spent 12 months doing Voluntary Service Overseas (VSO) as a teacher in The Gambia, then read Geography at Mansfield College, Oxford to. He became involved in the Oxford University Yacht Club (OUYC), sailing in and winning the Varsity Match in all his three years – the final one as Captain and Vice- Commodore. In his final year, he represented the British Universities in their tour of the United States, where he met Martine. They are reported to have made a dashing couple and their long-lasting union was a constant in the rest of his life.

Anthony joined Unilever as a graduate trainee, then became Managing Director of Phildar UK before his entrepreneurial drive led him to start a number of ventures. In 1990 he founded the Sermathang Project in Nepal to educate hundreds of children in the Helambu area, and built a new school in 1995, and in 2000 he founded the volunteering organisation MondoChallenge, and subsequently the MondoChallenge Foundation.

Anthony returned to OUYC as Commodore in 1979, becoming Vice President in 1985 and President from 2001-18. When he stepped down, he was awarded a Lifetime Achievement Award by the RYA, presented by Princess Anne.

Our thoughts are with Martine, his children Chris, Nick and Cecilia and their families who have lost a loving husband, father and grandfather.

Nick Lunch

Neil Payton
1973-2022

OS 1992

My younger brother Neil was born in Farnborough, Kent. He attended The New Beacon, where his interest in sport was nurtured. He joined Sevenoaks School in 1987 aged 13 as a member of Grote House. His love of sport flourished throughout his Sevenoaks years. In the Middle School. Neil was a member of the football, cricket and rugby 1st teams, and captain of his rugby team for three years in a row. In the Sixth Form he played for the 1st XI football team, and 1st XV rugby team for two years, becoming vice-captain in his final year. He was also part of the school’s rugby squad for the six-week round-the-world tour with matches in Zimbabwe, Australia and New Zealand. Outside school, he was a keen golfer and in his final year as a junior golf member at Knole Park Golf Club, he became junior captain.

After studying Economics at university, Neil based himself around London and worked in the City until 2022. He spent as much time as he could with his two sons, Finlay and Theo, and continued playing sport. In 2016 he married Penny and with his two stepdaughters, Amy and Katie, lived in the Shepperton area where he could always be found socialising with friends and family and enjoying life to the full.

Neil died on 29 June 2022 after a very short illness, surrounded by his family, and is greatly missed by all.

Trevor Payton (OS 1990)

Richard Reid
1939-2022

OS 1957

Richard was a renowned urban designer, town planner and architect. He was a member of RIBA and studied architecture at the Northern Polytechnic 1957-63, and later at the Academia Britannica, Rome, as a Rome Scholar in Architecture. He was also a lecturer and external examiner at numerous architectural schools in the UK, Europe and the USA before setting up in practice in 1987.

Richard was born in 1939. He joined Sevenoaks in 1952, first as a boarder at Park Grange, and later Johnsons, during the headships of James Higgs-Walker and Kim Taylor. When he started at Sevenoaks, the Art department was just a classroom in a corner of Park Grange. Big changes came with Kim Taylor and a group of hugely talented and enthusiastic teachers, including Bob White. New facilities were still years away, but the department was relocated above a Manor House garage and the art students helped Bob White to redecorate. Richard later said, ‘He didn’t just put a few colours in our paint boxes, so to speak, but provided the most profound, enthusiastic and inspirational teaching for a class I was so lucky to be a part of.’

Richard, who was known at school as Dick, lived in Sevenoaks all his life and walked home on many Sunday afternoons with his fellow boarders for tea and cakes at his parents’ house. His father, Robert, was a war correspondent who famously broadcast de Gaulle’s entry into Notre Dame during the liberation of Paris for the BBC. After university Richard travelled extensively throughout Europe and the Middle East, eschewing cameras in preference for drawing and painting the whole way.

Richard Reid and Associates is best known for its award-winning work at Lower Mill Estate in Cirencester, for the masterplan of Kleinzschocher, Leipzig, and for the masterplan and urban design of the Bertalia-Lazzaretto district of Bologna. They were awarded the prize for the best small house in The Sunday Times British Homes Award 2012. The achievement that gave Richard the most pleasure was the listing of Epping Civic Offices in 2017. The work of the practice has been included in numerous exhibitions at the Royal Academy, the Heinz Gallery, RIBA and the V&A. Richard worked for many years as a planner and urban designer for The Corporation of London and was a Freeman of The City of London.

Richard was married to Thalia and they had two daughters, the elder of whom, Tamasin, also attended Sevenoaks School.

He devoted his life to architecture and wrote and illustrated many books on the subject. He was still drawing right up until his death in November 2022.

Thalia Reid and Gerry Diebel (OS 1976)

Sarah
Sackville-West
1960-2022

OS 1978

Sarah Sackville-West’s father and mother moved into Knole House when she was one, the youngest of five daughters. She went first to Miss Grainger’s in Sevenoaks, and to Walthamstow Hall, then, aged 11, soon after her mother died, she went to Bedales School, where she was well prepared for co-education. After O-levels she was one of the seven brave day girls who joined the Sixth Form at Sevenoaks School, where her father, Lord Sackville, was Chairman of Governors. Sarah was determined to go to Oxford in her father’s footsteps; she was very much helped by Richard Hanson, who encouraged her to read widely in English Literature, and she much enjoyed learning to etch and paint with Bob White in the Art Room.

She went to Oxford to read English; at St Peter’s College she was, again, one of the first girls – an unlikely bluestocking. After Oxford she worked briefly in the City of London and wrote a novel. She moved to publishing, reading manuscripts for the literary agent Tessa Sayle, working for Sidgwick & Jackson, and filling a double-page spread every week as literary editor of the Catholic Herald – all at the same time. Then she discovered Andrew Edmunds and his wonderful shop and restaurant in Soho, and helped him catalogue and sell his 18th century caricatures – she became particularly knowledgeable in Hogarth and Gillray.

Through all her time in London she kept a foothold in The Old Laundry Cottage at Knole, and was very pleased to see friends from Sevenoaks School, and to watch over the next generation. She married Simon Rendall in 1992 and devoted the rest of her time to looking after him and their two boys, Freddy and Edward.

Simon Rendall

Roy Stafford
1928-2022

OS 1945

Roy was born in Beckenham and attended Sevenoaks School from 1942 to 1945. He graduated from Imperial College London with a degree in Electrical Engineering. After National Service with the RAF, he served with the Church Mission Society and moved to Kenya, where he taught Physics at Maseno School. He led a team of Kenyans and Italians to translate the Bible into the Luo language, the second most widely spoken tribal language in Kenya.

He later taught Physics at Ware College, Hertfordshire, before joining the faculty of All Nations Christian College. He travelled widely both teaching and learning with his wife Jan in Africa and Asia at the request of national Christian leaders. Roy was always grateful for the privilege of having been at Sevenoaks and proud of being an Old Sennockian. He passed away peacefully after a long illness at home in Ware.

Jan Stafford

Jonathan
Van Stroud
1955-2022

OS 1974

My brother Jonathan ‘Waffles’ Van Stroud (formerly Stroud) died suddenly on 18 April 2022, aged 66. After leaving Sevenoaks School in 1974, Jon spent a gap year working on the construction of the M25 before hitchhiking around the entire coastline of the Mediterranean Sea. He studied Sociology at York University and qualified as a social worker. Jon spent many years providing emergency out-of-hours support to people in crisis in North London where he lived, as well as overseeing the best interests of children in foster care, many of whom regarded him as a second father.

Jon married Jenny Van Hague, and settled down in Muswell Hill where together they raised three wonderful children, Maisie, Connie and Samuel. When he wasn’t working Jon enjoyed hosting epic dinner parties where he showcased his phenomenal cooking skills, as well as being a master sourdough baker and tending his allotment. Jon also enjoyed travelling to meet up with his children in far-flung places including India, Georgia, Ukraine and Canada. His immediate family, five siblings and his wide circle of friends will forever miss his good company.

Duncan Stroud (OS 1979)

David Brancher 1929-2021

OS 1946

David, or Twig Brancher to fellow Old Sennockians, was in Fenton House during the 1940s and notably took several Gilbert and Sullivan acting and singing leading parts et al under Mr IC Cole’s direction – I was his bridesmaid in Trial by Jury – by then a contralto on the verge of voice-break. David retired fairly early from the British Army to start a second successful career as a university lecturer, latterly at Bristol. After my own Army service, my wife Sonia and I became residents of historic Abergavenny where, by excellent coincidence, David and Pip Brancher also lived, and where David played a leading role in local government affairs. He passed away aged 92 and will be profoundly missed by so many firm and
admiring friends, God bless him.

Brigadier John Skinner (OS 1952)

Walter Cheney 1940-2021

OS 1958

Walter was born in Sevenoaks and a pupil at the school from 1953 to 1958. He then attended the London School of Printing, gaining the Diploma in Printing Administration. He joined the family firm
of Cheney & Sons of Banbury (at the time the oldest family firm in the country, dating back to 1767) and was there for 28 years, where he became a Director and, eventually, Company Secretary. Following
this he was employed for ten years as Secretary to the Trustees of the Oxford Diocese.

Music and fellwalking were Walter’s great loves. He won the School Music Prize and from the age of ten played the cello for 35 years, becoming a member of the Banbury Symphony Orchestra. He was also a keen member of the Banbury Choral Society and their Secretary for over 20 years. In retirement he moved with his wife to
the Yorkshire Dales where he could indulge his love of fellwalking. A new hobby was calligraphy, which linked happily with his
background in printing.

Walter fulfilled several roles in the local church as choir member, PCC Secretary and Steward. He also served the local hospital as a Chaplaincy volunteer for 17 years, where his ministry as a quiet, gentle, courteous man was much appreciated.

Katharine Cheney

Andrew Gunderson 1956-2021

OS 1975

Andrew attended Sevenoaks School during the late 1960s and early 1970s. He spent his formative years in Otford and went to the village primary school. Andrew later moved to Cornwall and lived there with his wife for 36 years. A year ago he underwent brain surgery to remove a tumour. He appeared to have made a good recovery and was starting to play tennis again when he died suddenly at home just days before his 65th birthday. Andrew had announced plans to retire from his work as Head Gardener and Lecturer at Duchy College Rosewarne, Cornwall. His position brought him into contact with several well-known names including HM King Charles. He leaves his wife Alison, children Adam and Rachel, and two grandchildren Oscar and Rosa.

Frank Baldwin

Tony Howcroft 1940-2021

OS 1958

Old Sennockian and sports coach Anthony Russell
Howcroft was born in Gravesend on 29 July 1940.
He attended a local convent school then joined
Sevenoaks School in 1951, moving to the town in the
same year with his parents.
From the very beginning at Sevenoaks, Tony’s passion
for sport was his main sense of direction and he
contributed to the school’s sports programme from
thereon. He had a natural flair for all sports and in
1957 as a 15-year-old represented the 1st XI cricket
team and was awarded his full colours at the end of
his first season.
Tony could have made a mark in club cricket as an
excellent all-rounder, but his contribution to school
athletics and particularly tennis channelled him away
from being a first-class cricketer. With his natural
athleticism and dedication to fitness and strength
training he also found himself in the 1st XV. He was
a mobile flanker (wing forward, we would have said
in those days) with good hands and a sound defence.
After school he ventured into club rugby, was soon
recognised, and represented the 1st XV at Sevenoaks
RFC. The pinnacle of his rugby career was playing
against a London Welsh celebrity side which included
JPR Williams!
Eventually squash and tennis became the centre of
his sporting activity. He qualified as an LTA tennis
coach, acquired a part 3 Squash Rackets Association
coaching certificate and became a member of the
United States Professional Registry UK. He returned
to Sevenoaks School to develop a squash programme,
becoming a dedicated, innovative and well-respected
coach and producing Kent Cup-winning teams.
Academically, Tony never felt that he had achieved
what he could have done at school, but he later
gained additional A-levels, a Postgraduate Diploma in
Recreation and Leisure Practice, a BA in Sociology and
Social Policy and Administration, and a further degree
in History and International Relations, which had
become a consuming interest for him.
After school, travel became a very important part of
Tony’s life, and there were few parts of the world he
did not visit, from the Norwegian Fjords and the Arctic
Circle; Nepal and the Himalayas, as far as Everest
base camp; the USA; the Andes; East Africa, taking in
Kilimanjaro and a visit to his beloved gorillas; South
Africa; Tanzania; Australia; to Israel in a kibbutz, and
Russia – the most significant of them all, as it turned
out, where he met a doctor, Kadriya Agisheva, in
2001. The couple married in 2006 and spent the best
16 years of Tony’s life together. He stepped into a
father’s role quickly and spent many hours supporting
Kadriya’s daughter, Victoria, through her middle school
years and her studies at Tonbridge Grammar School.
Tony was the most unassuming, modest gentleman,
a scholar and a true friend who was respected and
well-liked by everyone.

Peter Hill, former Head of PE and Sport

Paul Kempton 1951-2021

OS 1970

My younger brother Paul was born in North London. The family moved to Sevenoaks in 1953 where he attended St Thomas’ primary school, then Sevenoaks School from 1963 to 1970.

Paul was a member of the athletics and rugby teams and will be remembered as one of the ‘bouncers’ practising three to four hours daily after school in Johnson Hall (then a gym). With James Forder, son of the housemaster of School House, he was a leading light in the squad that won the senior team prize in the Kent Schools Trampoline Championships in 1966, and he was selected to compete for England in the European Schools Championships in Germany later that year.

He originally intended to qualify as a building surveyor, but decided to switch to insurance, joining Pickford, Dawson & Holland, which later merged with Lloyd Thompson and Jardine Matheson, where he met his wife Sally in 1980. Paul lived and breathed insurance, so he and Sally resolved to strike out on their own and set up Sennocke International Insurance Services Limited in 1990, initially with three employees. Based in Sevenoaks, the company quickly expanded thanks to Paul’s broad knowledge of the insurance market and his drive and determination to succeed.

Paul was an innovator with a keen eye for new market opportunities. Probably his biggest commercial success was to move into the new but burgeoning self-build insurance market in 2010. He created the Self Build Zone and Build-Zone insurance brands followed by Build-Zone Survey Services, firmly cementing Sennocke’s leading position in the sector.

He had a huge impact on the many people he met and worked with, and who have fond memories of him. His legacy continues through the company he created, which will undoubtedly continue to live up to the values he instilled in his employees.

Paul was a keen golfer, a member of Wildernesse Golf Club and a great supporter of the Old Sennockians Golf Society, which he represented with distinction for over 30 years in the Grafton Morrish Tournament, held annually on the north Norfolk coast.

He passed away on 24 May 2021 after a short battle with cancer, leaving his wife Sally, three children (two of whom attended Sevenoaks School) and two grandchildren.

Richard Kempton (OS 1966)

Ian Mateer
1947-2021

OS 1966

Ian was a student at Sevenoaks School from 1961 to 1966. The school was especially progressive under the leadership of Kim Taylor, who listened to what pupils wanted. Ian persuaded the school to invest in an old motorbike to be taken apart and rebuilt. This earned him the nickname ‘Motorbike Mateer’, instilling a passion which stayed with him his whole life. Soon after leaving school he trained as a chartered accountant and joined Grindlays Bank, living and
working in Paris, Geneva and London.

Ian married Sharon in 1971, and they had two children, Sarah and Russell. In 2006 he retired to Swanage and became a valued
member of the Coastwatch team and enjoyed country dancing. His main passions were travelling the world and motorcycles. He died peacefully at home on 12 October 2021 and was taken to his funeral in a motorcycle sidecar.

Sharon Mateer

Chief Ladi
Rotimi-Williams
1946-2021

OS 1966

Oladipupo, known as Ladi, attended Sevenoaks School from 1965 in the Sixth Form. He went on to University College London to study Law. He was called to the Nigerian Bar in 1972. In the same year he married his beloved wife Dr Henrietta Maria Williams, a fellow student and the daughter of Chief Louis Orok Edet, the first indigenous Nigerian Inspector General of Police. The marriage was blessed with four children: Rotola, Kunle, Yewande and Mary, and five grandchildren: Ayomide, Ayokunle, Ayoluwa, Thomas Eniola and Henrietta Maete Williams.

Mary Williams (OS 1999)

Jonathan Scotland 1971-2021

OS 1989

After a determined battle with cancer, Jonny passed away at home in East Sussex in October 2021, surrounded by his loving family. He leaves his wife Sonia, their two children Eva and Joe, a large extended family and his many friends from around the world. He will be greatly missed.

Iain Lea (OS 1989)

Peter Sharp
1939-2021

OS 1957

Peter was born Peter Edmund Jefferson and adopted by May and Percy Sharp, from his extended family, at around the age of nine.

He was a boarder in Johnsons, and although he didn’t say much about his academic success, he loved sport, especially cross country running. After leaving school he did National Service with the RAF, which he loved. He went into banking and worked for Barclays, NCR and Facit Addo, after which he set up his own company selling computers and computer supplies.

Peter did not enjoy good health and when he was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s in 2003 he decided to retire in order to enjoy a few years of quality retirement. Alas, this was not to be as his health had deteriorated and he was very poorly. We bought him a golden retriever puppy whom he adored and who brought him so much pleasure. Peter died peacefully at home last year with his family at his side. He received outstanding care from our local surgery and Hospice in the Weald.

Ann Sharp

Dr Debasis Roychoudhury 1950-2020

OS 1968

Dr Debasis Roychoudhury, known as Roy to his friends, was born in Calcutta on 9 June 1950. He went to Calcutta Boys’ School where he took an interest in sport, especially hockey. After passing his Senior Cambridge examinations his parents sent him to Sevenoaks School in 1966 to study A-levels. He was a boarder in the International Centre and learned to adapt to a new environment and culture and played cricket for the school’s 2nd XI.

In 1968 Debasis went to London Hospital Medical College; he graduated with a BSC (Hons) in Biochemistry, and later a Bachelor of Medicine and Bachelor of Surgery (MBBS) degree. During those years he tried his hand at dramatics and joined the Tagoreans, the oldest Bengali cultural organisation in the UK. He played the bangle seller in Tagore’s Chandalika in London and toured with the group in a minibus around Europe. He also joined the university hockey club and won the trophy for the hospital in 1974.

Debasis went on to train in General Practice and gained further qualifications: Diploma of the Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists, Diploma in Musculoskeletal Medicine and Diploma in Cardiology. He spent his working life devoted to his patients. He took time out to serve as Medical Officer in the 1986 Hockey World Cup in London and the 1987 Veterans Tournament in Australia, in which he also played. He continued playing hockey internationally with Havering Hockey Club until 2008.

Debasis enjoyed the simplest pleasures in life. Throughout his life he touched many people with his generosity and kindness.

Debjani Roychoudhury